Within
the span of forty-eight hours, my mother-in-law, Sandy, had to say goodbye to both her
mama and daddy. Yes... you read
that right... they BOTH passed away within two days of each other (Papaw Bill
on Saturday, Granny Cox on Monday).
When
I heard the news, I immediately said a prayer. A prayer for Granny Cox and Mr. Bill, a prayer for Sandy and her broken heart, a prayer for her sister, a prayer for my
father-in-law and his strength, a prayer for T and my sisters-in-law. And then I squeezed my husband as tight
as I could and said, "I hope we go like that. I hope we can live a long, beautiful, full life together
like they did - soulmates, best friends - have kids, and grandkids, and
great-grandkids. And then
disappear in the quiet of a restful sleep, walking hand-in-hand through the
gates of Heaven, knowing we'd be together eternally."
How
beautiful is it to think of them - 2 souls, 1 heart - SO deeply connected and
SO spiritually bonded that they left this earth together. Granny Cox always told my mother-in-law
she was so worried about what would happen to Papaw Bill once she'd
passed. And what do you know, he
left us first, to undoubtedly get all gussied up, make sure their dog Princess
was in tow, and welcome Granny with open arms, like, "There you are! I've been waiting for you. And you have NOTHING to worry
about."
If,
for some reason, you ever doubted - surely Granny Cox and Mr. Bill will restore
your faith in God and in the power of true love.
To
Granny Cox - though we were only able to be together a few times, I always felt
so loved by you and like one of your own grandchildren. I can still hear your sweet voice and
will forever lock it up in my mind to bring a smile on a troubled day.
Granny Cox and Me, 2008 |
To
Mr. Bill - we never did get to meet in person, but I've always loved and
respected the man I know you to be.
I look forward to meeting you one day when I know you'll welcome the
rest of us with open arms.
And
to Sandy - I love you and am so, so sorry for your hurting heart. I know you are at peace with the fact
that your parents are together, in an amazing place, but I also know they will
be fiercely missed. Their legacy
will live on through you, as you are a shining example of just how incredible they were.
Two
souls, one heart, together eternally in a place beyond our deepest
comprehension, beyond our wildest dreams.
xo.
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